【The Precious Treasure Box 。寶盒裡的寶貝】

08 October, 2012 就是下雨天咯 >_<

小妞近來的情緒又再反复無常，把拔（daddy）和那台相機又出遠差，再加上自己還是咳個不停，媽咪真的有點兒心力交瘁。其實很想偷懶，把媽-masak暫停操作一陣子。可是，昨晚當媽咪遊覽朋友的便當時，被小妞瞄到了，馬上湊過來：“Mummy, you want to make this for me?”
>_<"（汗顏）
聽她那麼一說，媽咪頓時有種對不起小妞的感覺 /o\
心一軟，好吧，媽咪明早就給妳弄一份快樂餐 :)

媽咪的大B小B

這個‘企劃案’藏在媽咪的畫本裡兩個多月了，今天終於被派上用場啦 ^.^v
（因為一直計劃要做個3D/立體的kitty抱娃娃--自從有了做立體愛心餐的滿足感後，媽咪就一直想要向高難度挑戰，嘻嘻 :D）
寶盒裡都是小妞的最愛！
大B（Kitty貓）是夾著nutella cocoa butter spread 的全麥土；
頭上的髮夾、手提袋上的心和把手是酸酸甜甜的sour belt；
還有，抱在她手裡的小B（小熊）是她百吃不厭的葡萄！

當小妞把寶盒打開時，媽咪就迫不及待想聽聽她的‘圖解’，結果，她竟然告訴媽咪那是一隻老鼠抱著小狗 >_<
是媽咪的雙手出了毛病，還是小妞有與眾不同觀點？！
不過值得欣慰的是，小妞還是如往常很開心地把快樂餐給吃個清光 :)

童言童語：
某個媽咪正準備午餐的中午，小妞忽然興致勃勃地擠了進廚房看媽咪做飯。看著看著，小妞很窩心地告訴媽咪：
“Mummy, can I cook when I grow up when you become baby? I want to be like you.”
心裡甜絲絲之餘，媽咪也不忘糾正她說，人一旦長大了就不會再變小，只會變老。小妞就很好奇地繼續問媽咪，老了之後呢？媽咪會變什麼？媽咪說就會死。一聽到媽咪那麼一說，小妞當場扁嘴，眼眶也馬上紅了起來問媽咪：
“I don't want! I don't want mummy to die... if you died, then who will sleep with me?”
？？？女兒呀，妳是真的捨不得媽咪離開妳，還是擔心沒有人陪妳入睡？

[Rosy Fairy 。快乐红仙子]

23 October, 2012 热烘烘大热天

停产了接近大半个月，妈咪终于按捺不住那颗澎湃的心……
尤其看到了小妞喜爱的水果，要给小妞制造意外惊喜的欲望 终于爆发了……
所以，快乐红天使诞生了……

天使的天空一点都不灰 ^.^

其实快乐天使是妈咪的另一个即兴之作。
即使到了最后一秒，水翁拿在手里的那一刻，妈咪还是犹豫不决，脑海里的点子一直乱七八糟地在团团转……
要把它变成乌龟？小女生穿的蓬蓬裙？？ @.@
……还未定案，妈咪就不管3721把水翁切开。
结果，出现在眼前的就是蝴蝶般的天使翅膀 *\(^^)/*

Happy fruit basket includes:
Rose apples, grapes, pomelo, choc. candies & sour belts

原以为小妞的咳嗽好得7788了，可是一放学回来好像咳得更严重了 >.<
爹地见状就给小妞下了禁令，要妈咪把天使处理了。。。
不好意思啦，女儿 ;p 。。。

虽然孤单，
天使的世界却不寂寞

童言童语：
小妞的同学当中有马来同胞、印度友族、美国金发美男还有韩国混血儿。
刚开始小妞一点都不以为意，也还没有种族概念。直到最近，她就一直问妈咪为什么Ryssa（她的马来女同学）或某某同学的皮肤是黑的。
妈咪就告诉她因为Ryssa是马来人。
（其实到现在妈咪还是不肯定这样回答到底对不对……妈咪很担心自己给孩子灌输不正确／有种族偏见的观念>.< ）

某天跟妈咪一起洗澡时小妞又旧题重问：
“Mummy, why is Ryssa's skin so dark?”　

妈咪：“Because she is Malay.　But some Malays do have fair skin like us.”

小妞：“Am I Malay? But I am not dark...”

妈咪：“No, Iroko is Chinese.”

小妞：“哦……So 小B is also Chinese? Mummy is Chinese? Daddy is Chinese?......”

忽然，那小妞指着妈咪的肚脐说：
“ee... Mummy, how come your belly button so dark? ooo, I know I know, because inside is Malay!!”

oh no, 女儿啊，妳的笑话也未免太冷了吧？！@.@

【Happy Deepavali 。屠妖節快樂】

October 25, 2011 Rich sunlight & rain

憤怒鳥+孔雀的合體　＞＿＜

A few peacocks have been drafted for preparing this *happy Deepavali meal*. Mummy eventually decided to make fun of Angry Bird ;p
In fact, the Angry Bird is always the catchiest creature to Iroko. As the meal was served, she didn't realise it actually is an "Angry Peacock". Perhaps, the tail doesn't resemble a conventional peacock's tail... @.@

童言童語：
不曉得什麼原因，小妞忽然很害怕上舞蹈班，連續好幾個禮拜了，進到舞蹈室的首十分鐘內她一定哭一場才漸漸進入狀況 >,<
好像是因為一直更換老師的關係，
好像是因為被其中一位老師的大聲量嚇到，
又好像是因為她發現自己不是很喜歡靜態的舞蹈/運動
（自從上了gymnastics，她就無法“安分守己”的跟著老師跳芭蕾了）。。。

昨天小妞跟Barney跳舞跳得起勁時，媽咪就趁機試探小妞她是不是很愛跳舞，想不想跳得像熒幕上的哥哥姐姐們那麼棒。怎知，小妞並沒有中媽咪的圈套，告訴媽咪：
“Yea, Koko loves dancing, Koko can learn from Barney at home, no need to go dancing class...”

晚上，媽咪跟小妞提起過兩天就要帶她乘搭飛機回家鄉迎接姑姑的小貝比，所以接著兩個星期都不能去gynmastics 和舞蹈班了。這時輪到小妞趁機告訴媽咪：
“Mummy no need to go dancing class anymore, because Koko already finished the last one！…… so mummy don't need to pay for dancing class…… but mummy must pay to MeiLing teacher （her gymnastics coach）ya！！ ”

【ALOHA :D。小妞，扭扭】

 October 24, 2011 旱 。雨

這個草圖給媽咪很多創作靈感。
從頭到腳都有無限的發揮空間。
想過用褐紅色的糙米粉，也想過把薯泥用可可粉“染成”深褐色做頭髮；
想過用乳酪片修當皮膚， 也想過用白米飯捏成飯糰娃娃；
想過用5顏6色的圓形糖片做一串項鍊；
想過給娃娃“縫製”soba抹茶面草裙；
想過讓娃娃穿件紅色小背心。。。

Iroko has been influenced deeply by Barney series.
Recently, she loves folk dances so much...
The Hula is one of her regular exercise choices now!

結果因為小妞開始鬧肚子餓，就一切從簡。。。

*happy lunch* includes:
Grapes & orange (starter) + mashed potato + steamed French beans +  Yacon soup

童言童語：

某天在等電梯時，小妞興致勃勃拉起她的蓬蓬裙，在那裡左扭右擺的跳起舞來。看她跳得那麼開心，媽咪也配合她，做狀拉裙子隨她踢踏踢踏地起舞。怎知那小妞竟然揶揄媽咪：

“Mummy, you want to dance like Koko？But mummy is wearing pants, mummy doesn't have skirt like Koko one！。。。Or Koko buy for mummy？ But mummy is too big, cannot fit！Never mind when mummy becomes smaller like a baby, then mummy can wear the skirt。。。”

媽咪就告訴小妞，人只能一直長大，然後變老，媽咪是沒有辦法在變小貝比了。結果小妞“安慰”媽咪說：

“Can, mummy must eat a lot of rice, noodles... then you will become smaller！”@_@ 

因為大人常常告訴她要吃得飽飽才會長大，要多吃點才有力氣做這個做那個。。。想必小妞心裡一定認為只要吃多一點，吃飽一點，就會有“法力”變出你想要的東西！！

【Sleeping Piglet 。睡豬】

September 26, 2011 Cloudy windy day

Early in the morning, daddy informed that he needed the camera for his work today. Since then, the day became so dull for mummy to prepare *happy meal*. To mummy, it's rather a challenging task to capture nice photos with that "pad" >,<

Even until this moment, mummy feels somewhat reluctant to post the blog ;s

Well, good or bad, it's done, it will be over, and it will be forgotten sooner or later...

童言童語：
小妞死愛臉，怕丟臉是絕對不容置疑的 >,<
每當她自己不小心絆倒，出糗時，要是她察覺身邊有人看到，二話不說，她就“先下手為強”，大聲哭出來，分散人家的注意力，同時博取同情 >.<
剛開始大家都心知肚明地假裝看不到，讓她好下台。

現在，那小妞則是不管三七二十一，先開口說：“DON'T SAY!” <( \__/ )>，
或是“Koko罵罵（生氣）了！”

真的有夠無賴 >,<

那天她又命令她爹地不要說，結果媽咪和爹地就故意一直有說有笑，偏偏不和她說話，才不消幾分鐘，小妞就發起悶騷說：“Please talk！” （跟她說話）

原來對付無賴，要更無賴！

【Contrast Match 。黑白配】

September 22, 2011 Humid hazy rainy cloudy...

Rat + Cat = Disaster??
Nothing is impossible ;)

They were supposed to be "black-matches-yellow" but the pan fried egg was not thin enough to perfectly wrap up the rice ball. As a result, here comes the contrast match ;p

*happy lunch* includes:
Grapes & cherry tomatoes (starter) + fried egg +  cabbage fish ball soup +
braised cauliflower, black fungus, oyster mushroom,  enoki mushroom & broccoli stalk

媽咪碎碎念：
因為小妞， 媽咪終於有機會真正欣賞一部聞名已久的經典歌舞劇‘The Sound of Music’ 。
記得中學時期因為電視台重播，那電影又被翻熱了一輪。也忘了自己是否有看過，只知道對劇情一點印象也沒有 ;p

女兒的爸念了好久說要讓女兒看這出真人真事文藝片，那時媽咪還潑冷水說小妞怎麼會看上那種“古董”作品 =.=
結果買回來後，媽咪就被爹地的冰水由頭淋到腳 #.#
小妞竟然愛死了那影片！！！剛開始的頭幾天更是猖狂得從早看到晚；接下來幾天還好，只是不斷重播那幾幕她喜歡的歌舞片段。

跟著小妞看，媽咪終於明白它會成為經典的原因了。
在那個沒什麼科技可言，娛樂消遣寥寥無幾的年代，能有這般水準的內容+曲目，那影片確實很深得人心。更何況其中一首是很多人的快樂童謠，即使像媽咪這些70後沒看過影片的，都幾乎會哼上幾句：

DOE, a deer, a female deer

RAY, a drop of golden sun

ME, a name I call myself

FAR, a long long way to run

SEW, a needle pulling thread

LA, a note to follow sew

TEA, a drink with jam and bread

That will bring us back to DOE ooo...

看了不下20次，小妞都還是只記得DOE 和ME那兩句而已 >.<
喏，那小妞又在拉破喉嚨高唱：

“Now you know the notes to sing

You can sing most anything～～～”

【Pocket Lover 。口袋裡的愛】

August 09, 2011 Warm cloudy day

*happy lunch* includes:
Grapes (starter) + mashed potatoe & sweet potatoe & carrot +
steamed bok choy + ABC soup 

Iroko has had rice for her lunch for several days in a row. Despite the concern of heatiness (white rice is considered as heaty food especially to patients/those who just recovered from illness like Iroko >.<), mummy is running out of ideas what dishes to prepare for her @.@

Daddy is on his slimming diet, mummy doesn't need to prepare dinner for adults (no point and no fun to eat dinner alone, so mummy takes very simple dinner nowadays---leftover from Iroko's dinner) In order to avoid wastage, mummy doesn't keep too many ingredients (especially fresh veggies) in the fridge. It's really tricky to choose and to buy food for only ONE kid's meal portion; moreover, there is a long list of food that she must not eat for time being!! arghhhhhh... (the bok choy has been sitting in the fridge for a week!!)

童言童語：
昨晚在小妞的房裡，爹地故意爬上她的睡床，抱着躺在那裡的媽咪，然後故意捉弄小妞：“Koko，daddy hug hug mummy!”
本來正玩得起勁的小妞就停了下來，很嚴肅地盯著她爸，說：“No, cannot!!”
接著，女兒的爸當然演完下半場，故意叫女兒看他親親媽咪。
小妞又阻止，“不可以！”

其實，爹地和媽咪還搞不清楚，那小妞是在吃誰的醋--她是嫉妒媽咪被爹地寵愛（意：爹地只可以寵她一個），還是認為爹地“侵犯”了她最要好，最親密的‘朋友’--媽咪……

相當於小妞這個年齡的孩子都會經歷性別+自我身份認知的成長階段，尤其在他們開始會分別男生有小雞雞，女生沒有雞雞，卻有(.)(.)。
過程裡，他們常常會處於矛盾的心裡狀態，而小妞目前就時不時會出現小女生的心理掙扎現象--嫉妒媽咪分薄了父親對她的愛，而另一方面又很需要媽咪的照顧/對媽咪的依賴，也想要模仿媽咪做個真正的女人！！（媽咪終於親身經歷什麼叫electra complex了 ;p）

很多人會認為這只不過是小孩子一時之間的淘氣，而父母與孩子之間的關係也不是什麼值得探討，關注的事情。。。很無奈的，就是因為人與人之間這些微妙的情感+心理成長，而影響了每個人自我形象/個性的形成。很多行為/性格偏差的出現往往都是一個人在成長的某個階段裡無法消除/突破心理障礙而演變而成的。。。

當然，如果從來都沒探討過這一點，即使問題出現了，也不會覺得是個問題。。。
在育兒的字典裡是沒有--“standard”，這個字眼的存在，有10個父母，就會有10個說法。。。

【Tofu-Bugs 。又見甲蟲滿天下】

July 27, 2011 Cloudy windy day

媽咪最怕要煎炸東西，除了魚，煎豆腐是最讓媽咪聞之喪膽的事情了。
但今天媽咪終於找到可以不必被熱滾滾的油噴到傷痕累累的煎豆腐方法了，嘢！！

The tofu-bugs project is totally out of planning (mummy had terrible headache the whole morning @.@).
Nevertheless, she was so happy when she found the way to fry tofu "beautifully" without burning herself and without using much cooking oil. The secret is to use non-stick frying pan!! (all the while mummy used wok for deep frying, never thought of using frying pan)
Suddenly, she was inspired by those tofu...
suddenly, she forgot about her pain...
suddenly, Iroko went to kitchen with her newly bought lady-bug tang-lung...
and here it is, the tofu-bugs :)

*happy lunch* includes:
Strawberries & grapes + Green tea soba noodles +
boiled baby French beans + fried tofu with minced meat & amaranth + English gourd soup

童言童語：
每當媽咪犯頭疼時，小妞總會很貼心地去拿風油幫媽咪塗在太陽穴兩側再加以按摩，又會很關心地問媽咪有沒有服藥。還不時叮嚀媽咪要good girl, 笑哈哈，才不會頭疼。。。
記得有次小妞看見媽咪塗風油，就自言自語地說：

“Mummy headache, because mummy's head already spoilt...”

【MARTY in the House 。‘馬迪’在此也！】

July 20, 2011 A typical summer!!



Marty -- a carefree cute zebra, always sees the bright side of most things ^.^ 

Alex has escaped from Madagascar to {ma-masak} for a period of time, it's now Marty's turn to move in move in  (^u^)v

Iroko had a late lunch today (2:45pm) because the pitiful little one had to follow mummy rushing here and there (from Serdang-->Kajang-->Bangi--->Serdang) to do the settlement for the car and roadtax renewal. Although it was quite tiring, she seemed quite enjoyed >,< no complain from her at all ;p

*happy lunch* includes:
Grapes + stir-fried baby French beans, assorted veggie & prawns + sweet corn soup

今天不記錄小妞的名句，倒是要記載關於小妞的幾件不重要的小事 ;p
很多事表面上看來隨機又不重要， 但加起來卻能讓人更了解另一個人/一件事並可窺到那人的內心世界。。。摘自劉軒《放任心中的一百次流浪》
更何況，憑著對孩子成長點點滴滴的記錄，無疑地能讓自己的教育方式作出調整，並同時能享受育兒天倫之樂 ^.^

《小妞最愛5大影片》排行榜：

1）美女與野獸
* 動畫卡通的先鋒，沒什麼看頭的科技視覺效果，但卻把細節都很細膩的呈現出來。可是，媽咪覺得，最吸引小妞的還是那可歌可泣又浪漫的故事情節 >,<

2）MADAGASCAR
* 這回不是因為劇情，倒是那幾隻擔大旗的主角動物都是小妞所熟悉和喜愛的動物 (^ ^)v 當然，也得歸功於那首成名曲--I like to move it move it...

3）RIO
* 除了色彩絢麗，栩栩如生的畫面，也純粹因為它像出歌舞劇--可讓小妞跟著又唱又擺又跳 @.@

4）TRANSFORMER 2
* 故事不是賣點，也不是其要，讓小妞乖乖坐著配老爸看上半個多小時的主要原因是那些一直出現的飛機，戰鬥機，和直升機！！

5）Wall-E
*  影片能上榜，完全是因為一個令人跌破眼鏡，甚至噴飯的理由--很多小強（蟑螂）等昆蟲的出現！！！

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【Shopping Queen 。“拜鞋”女王】

March 05, 2011 Warmmmmmm cloudy day

Nothing is more excited than preparing this *happy lunch*!! Mummy has had the idea since long time ago (more accurately, since Iroko got addicted to shopping)!

SHOEsssssss...
Lunch of the day: pasta with tomato sauce + corn soup + grapes

Mummy was a typical woman who loves shopping anytime, anywhere... Who knows the daughter is even more "lady-like" than her mummy!! She called for shopping in her dreams; wakes daddy/mummy up by saying "shopping, shopping"; greets mummy "Let's go shopping" instead of "Good morning"...

Flip-flop & sandals are Iroko's favourite!

Daddy always asked mummy "Want to have a look?" whenever they passed by shoe shops. The situation changes nowadays--without permission/request, the little one will slide in the shop as she saw shoessssss... then she will order mummy to let her try this shoe and that that shoe....

Mummy thought of making a pair of boot, but Iroko just couldn't wait any longer--too hungry!